Sexy Dating. 7 Tips To Understanding His Flirting Body Language.
Crowded Bar. Hot Guy. Is He Flirting With You? How To Read His Sexual Body Language Gestures.
1: Putting his hands on his hips. By standing like this he is accentuating his size. By taking up more space he is appearing larger and more domineering. In cave dwelling time’s females chose the bigger males for better means of survival, which explains why many girls go for the assertive and broad shouldered type.
2: Seated with legs wide open on the barstool. By sitting like this he is offering you a great view of his crotch. If he should start to rock back and forth on the stool as well, look out. The male body language here spells the one thing on his mind is you.
3: Fiddling with his tie. The tie is basically a signpost to his penis, according to body language experts. If he should start playing with or stroking his tie, then there is a great chance that he is interested in you. By taking the initiative yourself and rubbing his tie admiringly, you are giving him a very strong sexual signal.
4: Finger pointing in the direction of his crotch. If he has his hand in his front trouser pocket, or has his hand resting on his belt, with a finger pointing straight down to his pelvis then anyone looking at him is drawn to his groin. His whole body is highlighting his pelvis in this highly sexual body language stance.
5: Rubbing his nose. When a man spies a woman he is attracted to, then unconscious preening begins. Other body language gestures to look out for are rearranging his clothing, running a finger along an eyebrow or pushing a hand through his hair. Along with the tie, the nose is a phallic symbol.6: Groin display. The more enthusiastic the guy is, the further apart his legs will be, irrespective of whether he is standing up or sitting down. This is considered to be very primitive flirting body language and is also behaviour seen in the monkey families. Basically he is showing you his fantastic package, on a purely subconscious level, of course.
7: Rocking his weight back and forth on his heels. This is considered to be subconsciously a mirroring of “vertical thrusting”. One of the surest body language gestures that he is hot for you.
Compared to us girls, guys have a much smaller range of flirting body language gestures and those that they do use are very easy to spot. Guys have basic primal urges and are still operating off caveman instincts subconsciously. Men are still using the same body language as they did in prehistoric times, much of which is also seen in the animal kingdom. Luckily for us. Obviously reading his body can be easier than reading his mind. Look for groupings of the above for highly interested flirting signals. Three or more and he is yours!
Since we no longer live in caves, we can at least expect some civilized gestures such as a drink and conversation before being dragged off to the modern day equivalent of the cave. If you want more relevant ammunition, read and download the report and articles at get a guy formula. There’s some of the most valuable content I’ve read for finding, attracting and keeping a guy available at that site.
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Tags: body language, flirting, flirting body language
September 2nd, 2008 at 6:01 am
Have you actually spoken to this girl? When women are flirting, there are lots of signals though some are admittedly subtle and context-sensitive. Some things women do when flirting:
-Presenting a flash of neck by turning their head (hard to describe, but you know when you see it)
-Grooming activitied like playing with hair, adjusting glasses or smoothing skirt/pants
-If she touches your arm while talking to you, that’s an excellent sign!
-Of course, holding eye contact with you is good, too
That’s all I can think of for now (and what I can think of having done myself in the past), and while any one on its own might just be a gesture, if she’s doing all of this in your direction she may well be flirting with (but always check politely so you don’t creep her out). Good luck!